Most of
the people who lived in my village when I was growing up were divided,
generally speaking, into three categories. We were either farmers,
fishermen, or goldsmiths. According to how far one lived from the
coast, the fishermen usually lived in the villages along the coast
and the farmers occupied the inland villages.
One could always tell an adult's occupation by
knowing when that person was not working. According to the tradition
of the elders, it was taboo for fishermen to fish on Tuesdays, and
for farmers to go to the farm on Fridays. This system made it easy
for families to get together with one another.
The rainy season was the life blood of our community,
because all the activities necessary for survival depended on the
rains. When the rains were late, the crops suffered, and when the
rains refused to come, there was famine and total disaster. It was
therefore expedient and prudent for families to have extra food
in storage and available for the lean times.
Since there was no refrigeration, most foods were
prepared for storage simply by drying or smoking. Fishermen exchanged
their catch for crops from the farmers in a simple barter system.
This system worked well unless one of the partners got greedy or
dishonest, then all hell broke loose and the system would break
down.
These processes had kept the Ga people honest and
trustworthy for many generations, to the extent that the integrity
of a Ga had become legendary. This was true, according to my grandparents,
until the Ga people met the Europeans on their beaches over two
hundred years ago. The cultural exchange and contact challenged
and modified some of our traditional ways and values.
A notable quality among the Ga people I grew up
with was their pride, their self reliance and their willingness
to share what they had, and a commitment to the wholeness, integrity,
and welfare of all. It was said that a Ga would give you the clothes
off his back if he found out that you needed it. People looked out
for each other and were willing to share whatever they had. Not
just neighbors, but even strangers were welcomed like family.
Among the Ga people it was said that there were
no orphans nor strangers. No children were ever rejected and the
whole village was responsible for all young people. It took the
whole village to raise a child and every grown woman was called
a Mother and every grown man was called a Father. Gas lived like
one big extended family. Children had no cousins; all cousins were
brothers and sisters, and the young men and young women were uncles
and aunts to all children.
All the people shared their wealth and all the
villagers came to each others' aid to fish and to farm. When there
was a task to be done, all the people came together to help and
when one saw something to be done one went ahead and took care of
it without any questions being asked.
Mutual respect, care, concern, and reciprocity
were the major traditional characteristics of our community. As
long as there was food, no one had to go hungry. However, even in
such a community as ours, there occasionally appeared a selfish
individual who, because of selfishness and egoism, did not live
or abide by tradition.
My mother told me the story of such an individual.
She began her story with the popular saying: if you don't like
Kwe's mother, don't eat her food...
One fine Tuesday, a fisherman called Abokobi visited
his relations in our village. The walk from the coast to the village
took some time, and when he arrived at the village, there was no
one at home. All the villagers were in the fields preparing for
the planting season. Generally the Ga people planted their staple
foods such as cassava, yams of all kind, peanuts (groundnuts), okra,
all sorts of hot peppers (Gas love hot peppers), spices, beans,
and corn (maize) to mention just a few. There were peppers, yams
and cassava drying outside on raised platforms when Akokobi arrived.
These were some of the ingredients used for the daily meal. After
days of thorough drying all these ingredients were ground on a grinding
stone and then stored for use in the daily preparation of food.
It was very important for the drying process to be carefully monitored.
On the Accra Plains, the clouds could quickly became dark without
warning, and soon after the rains would come.
On this fine Tuesday, when it started raining Abokobi
retreated into the house and waited for his relatives to return
from the fields. He got hungry but did not find anything in the
house to eat. He looked outside and saw the cassava being dried
but did not have the common decency to bring them in from the rain.
Soon the relatives arrived and after the traditional
exchange of greetings and news the family asked Abokobi if he brought
the drying cassava in from the rain.
He had the audacity to attempt to defend his lack
of concern and selfishness by reminding his relatives that he was
a fisherman and not a farmer. The family asked him to hold on to
that thought and they went inside and got some cassava flour from
their stock and prepared their midday meal and ate the meal without
inviting Abokobi to join, as tradition demanded.
Angrily Abokobi got up to go without saying a word.
As he left, the Matron of the family was heard saying to him, "Abokobi,
now when you return home do not forget to tell the whole story.
The fact that we did not invite you to eat as is our tradition is
only one part of the story."
And so it has been since that fine Tuesday so long
ago. When one is asked to tell the whole story, it means
to tell the whole truth, for the Ga people strongly believe that
"the truth does not need any embellishment; it can stand all
on its own". |